Tis true...if they have complaints...they should be taking them to the said 'missus'. I'm pretty grateful that my other half is quite happy for me to play away to my hearts content...so long I set aside a few hours here and there and play with headphones on.
Hence my Christmas present this year, has been a nice new shiney 5.1 headset.
That said, I think the preference is for me to be at home playing...instead of being out with friends getting in trouble.